They're already living in a condo and have been for years. I'm glad they don't have garden/property upkeep to worry about. I think you're right that help at home will be the way to go. They worry about finances but I think they can swing it.
They're already living in a condo and have been for years. I'm glad they don't have garden/property upkeep to worry about. I think you're right that help at home will be the way to go. They worry about finances but I think they can swing it.
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly.
- English proverb.
I am glad that the surgery went well. your mother is blessed to have you. I pray for easy and fast recovery for her. take care of yourself as well, so you can be there for her.
Alysia
dx 2008
Here, in this forum, I have found my sweet eternal love, my beautiful Phil.. :
https://www.wegeners-granulomatosis.com/forum/threads/4238-pberggren-memorial-thread
"You are my sunshine", he used to sing to me... "you make me happy, when skies are grey" I still answer him.
Rest in Peace, my brave Batman and take care of your weggies from heaven, until we meet again.
Sorry I'm late responding to this thread. Sending out healing thoughts and prayers to your mom, Lisa, and also to yours, Phil.
Anne, dx'ed April 2011
I also apologize for responding late, was without cell service for almost 5 days and without that I cannot be online.
Praying for your mom, Lisa, for a quick healing/recovery. Also for you, because not being able to be there is hard. Will be praying for you when you are able to be with your parents and give whatever support you can.
For you Mr Phil, praying for your mom that she can soon have some relief from the terrible pain she must be experiencing.
Love to all....
Lisa ,i am also glad to hear your moms surgery went well. When will she be realeased from the hosp. ? Don't over due it yourself,you need to remember to give yourself a break.
Life isn't about how you survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain !
glad to hear the surgery went well lisa
How's your mom doing Lisa? I know you want to be there so be easy on yourself as you will get there soon. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Cindy
Earth is just a stopover and whatever you achieve there is only a small part of the deal. The Afterlife Of Billy Fingers
Thanks to all of you for your support. My mom seems upbeat and happy that friends and family are visiting. They've started gradually getting her moving a bit and will continue to do more. She has a bit of a cough from being immobile, which is somewhat concerning but she's in good hands.
My sister from Seattle got there last night and will take good care of them... She plans to cook some meals (and I know friends are already doing so), catch up on their laundry, etc. Between the two of us we will make sure they get a housekeeper/caregiver lined up before they're left alone. Mom has to take stairs just to get in her front door and neither of them will be able to bend to use the washer and dryer. Oy! In same ways I wish they'd let us move them to the beautiful seniors' home across the street from their condo, but they're not ready for that and I can't say I blame them. I've tried to convince them to move to BC for years. The Calgary sister and brother are super-busy people involved in everything and spending a month or two of every year in Guatemala. My Seattle sis and I are home more and could spend more time with them as they age, and I am their health-care decision-maker in the event of their incapacity. (They know I'd be the last one to 'pull the plug'! And of course I assume I'm their favourite, but I think each of us makes that assumption, which to me is a sign that we all felt loved growing up... ) so I'd love to have them here but their friends and home and everything else are there, so... Probably lots of back and forth for us over the coming years. It's not far, only a one-hour flight. Good health care for me there too, maybe even a second opinion one of these days.
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly.
- English proverb.
Phil, I'm sorry I was so wrapped up or preoccupied that I forgot to respond about your mom! I'm sorry she's in such pain and hope that she finds some relief soon. It's hard to see a parent suffer. She's fortunate to have a loving son who I'm sure prays for her daily...
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, she became a butterfly.
- English proverb.
Lisa they will teach her how to go up and down steps with a walker, at least they did me. That was before I even left the hospital. With any luck she will only need the walker for 4-5 weeks and can graduate to a cane.
Phil I hope the chiro is able to help your mom feel better. Nothing worse than back pain.
Cindy
Earth is just a stopover and whatever you achieve there is only a small part of the deal. The Afterlife Of Billy Fingers
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