hi marcy nice to hear from you im new to forum read my story let me say this please take note YOU ARE the same person just because you have lost a physical side of you means that you were not focusing on your spiritual side and thats what counts your the same person everyone loves the same person that told others you love them the same person that helped others the same person that everyone can depend on physical things are temporary they last for a little while then go so what people dont think of you because you can run a marathon or lift the heaviest weights or do push ups with your little finger they remember you for being YOU so take care we,ll speak agn xx