I can totally relate. I look perfectly normal except for slight puffiness from the high dose of steroids Returning to work after 3 months was hell. I had my lund removed, and dealt with unimaginable pain (still do) and coworkers kept telling me how i look fine. I was so angry. I didn't want to talk about what I had just gone through with the surgery and my recent diagnosis of Wegener's... people can be so UGHHH sometimes. Even my doctors day it.. oh you look great.. you will be fine soon. ugh SHUT UP I AM NOT FINE!!! lmao Please know that you look fabulous but we know the inner pain your going through. STAY STRONG!!!