I have a question for all of you: does anyone else have a problem with their family understanding? I was in a car accident a week ago (no major injuries thank goodness even went to ER to be sure). While my car is ooc I'm looking for a new one. My mother insists on me getting a job which could be adverse to my health. Which is odd because she gave the whole wegeners speech to my fiance when we first got out here. She explained everything like she understood but the way she keeps pushing makes it seem like she doesn't. I don't know what to think and it's stressing me out greatly. What should I do?