There are no words, no matter how much we want there to be. I was sitting next to Lake Erie with my beautiful 2 1/2 month old granddaughter in my arms and feeling very happy. Suddenly, a wave of sadness came over me and I began to cry. About an hour later, I read this sad news, and I understood what I was feeling. The time of tears came to me at about the time Alysia posted the sad news. The beginning and end of life..... Phil certainly did the very most with his time in between. So many will remember Phil for his kindness and his never-ending willingness to welcome and help all the members of this forum. God Bless you Phil. God Bless you Alysia. We all mourn with you.