As I have said in my original post, it is my 14 year old grandson who has Wegener's. With everyone else in his family, he is reluctant to discuss his condition. With me, we talk quite matter of factly about what we both are learning about WG. He says that several of his doctors have told him to be very careful about germs and possible infections. He understands that his immune system is suppressed these days and it is up to him to be vigilant. He tells me that he now never drinks from the school fountains nor does he share bottles of water with anyone. I heard him tell his mother the other day that she should know better than to offer him a drink from her water container. He says he washes his hands many times during the day.
I am learning that youngsters deal with illnesses in their own ways. His rheumy has told all of us that he is just like any other kid except that he must take medicine. His doctors have worked out his entire medicine procedure with him and he is now in complete charge of the dosages and when he is to take them. I am very proud of him for accepting his condition (his doctor tells him that WG is a condition not an illness) and being able to get on with his life.
My goal is to do as much research as I can about WG so that we will always know where the most up-to-date research is being done. I want to be informed so that whenever we do talk about it I can point him in the right direction. I hope next year to be able to take him to the next Vasculitis Foundation seminar...that is, if he wants to go.
Marian
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