Mama, I am happy that Thanksgiving went well for you. All to often we get trapped by how we perceive the world sees us, mind you with all the hype in magazines and TV adverts about looking young it is no wonder. I know an elderly lady who has had the misfortune to get Bells Palsey but she has found one positive aspect of it, one side of her face is wrinkled through old age the other side is all smooth more like a 20 year old face, guess which side she likes? I hope all goes well for you and your Christmas bash.
Kathy, your three sons are right. In the wedding photos is it not better to look "fat and ugly" rather than as a decomposing corpse or a jar of ashs? I am sorry to be a tad blunt but many illness's can cause us to look different. Perhaps it is a male thing, but I agree with Al's comment
"We are all different, of course, and I wish to respect those differences. I also wish to celebrate the individuality, including my own. I am not one to hide my disease or downplay it in any way."
I have given up caring what my friends and family plus my customers think of how I look and so far people just show concern for my health and well being and are glad that I am still alive and able to be with them. If there are any who do not like how I look, well tough luck this is who I am ......... at the moment.
Jim
You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give. Kahil Gibran
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