I just wanted to add my dad's story. 20 years ago he was married to my mum and had me and my sister. 3 years later they divorced. My dad remarried and has had a happy 20 year marriage. Flash forward to today my mum has severe rheumatoid arthritis and my stepmum has aggressive cancer and is currently on her second course of chemo.
We laugh about it because either way, with either wife, my dad would've turned into a carer.
You cant predict the future, but you're lucky that you've got prior warning.
"I believe that I have seen a negative attitude kill people, but I don't think that a positive one will cure you. However, I know that it Helps". Jack
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