Originally Posted by
crackers
maybe a bed testers job,now there's an idea
HAHAHAHAHAHA.....excellent!
Originally Posted by
Sangye
As far as expecting a flare up, try not to live in the future. You've got enough to deal with, grieve and celebrate right now. I think it's flat-out amazing that you don't have any symptoms other than feeling tired! You go, girl!
Wise words. Worrying about it won't change anything. I used to worry about it just after diagnosis but as time went on and I got stronger, the worry went away. I just keep up (MOSTLY!!!!!) with my medication and my doctor's appointments.
Agree that a Rheumy would be a good idea to manage your symptoms rather than being seen by a Neph all the time. I had a Neph and a Rheumy in hospital and I see an Immunologist and a GP now.
You're making great progress though. Keep at it but don't overdo it.
I too am infertile due to Chemo. I was 35 when I got sick so I guess I had my chance I know that this kind of thing is a big thing to deal with and you have every right to be upset (either now or later). I hope I don't sound condescending or tacky but I found that things worked out ok. I've taken a look back at my life and I can find nowhere (including now) that it would have been a good thing for me to have kids. From the crap I used to get up to, to the life I have now. If I'd had kids I wouldn't be where I am. I'm happy and mostly healthy. I have great job, I run my own company, I have great friends and a groovy wife. I am also surrounded by other people's kids whenever I feel the need to act their age. I guess I'm trying to say that even though infertility is a big thing, other things happen in life that wouldn't have been there otherwise. Give yourself time to grieve, yes, but don't close yourself off to anything.
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