Originally Posted by
gilders
Hi Alysia,
I'm still very worried, mostly that 2-3 days after surgery my bleeding will be uncontrollable.
I have been writing messages to be given to loved ones if I don't survive. It is silly really as hopefully (and more than likely) I will survive and really everything in the notes should be things that I should have already said face to face to my loved ones, even if I was not having surgery.
I do not have an official will, so legally everything will become my wife's. I am writing a list of which possessions I want handed to various people and know my wife will follow my wishes.
I hope you are feeling well at the moment.